Luxe boudoir session inside a sauna, her skin glowing in the warm, golden light, surrounded by the natural wood tones of the sauna walls, creating an intimate and serene atmosphere. — Nicole Ely-Joshi Photography in Calgary, AB

When we’re nervous or overwhelmed, excuses often become our go-to. We tell ourselves we’re too busy, too tired, or too broke to prioritize what really matters: Ourselves.

Here’s the truth: There will always be a reason to wait. But here’s another truth: You are worthy of love, care and investment right now.

Prioritizing yourself doesn’t mean neglecting others—it means showing up for them as your best self. When you take care of you, you’re more energized, confident and present for the people and moments that matter most.

So, let’s stop waiting for the “perfect” time. You don’t need to be perfect to be worthy. You’re already enough.

Excuse: “No Time!”

Truth: It’s Time to Prioritize YOU

“I just don’t have enough time for myself. I’ll do it when life slows down.” Work is hectic, family schedules are non-stop, and there's always one more thing pulling at our time and energy on repeat. Sound familiar? It’s easy to feel like there’s no room in the schedule for anything extra, let alone a pampering boudoir session. But here’s the thing: taking time for yourself isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity.

Your mental health and well-being are the foundation for everything you do. When you’re constantly giving to others without refilling your own cup, burnout isn’t far behind. A luxe boudoir session isn’t just about beautiful photos; it’s about creating a moment that’s all about you. It’s about stepping away from the chaos and reminding yourself that you deserve care, love and celebration too. Taking time for yourself means you’re building the energy and confidence to show up fully in every part of your life.

So, carve out that time. Prioritize that pampering. You’re worth it, and the benefits will ripple through every corner of your world.

A confident and radiant plus-size woman in a boudoir session, posed gracefully with soft lighting that highlights her natural beauty, exuding empowerment and self-love in an elegant setting. — Nicole Ely-Joshi Photography in San Francisco, California

Excuse: “I’ll book a session once I lose a little weight.”

Truth: You’re Worthy Right Now—No Matter Your Size

Shaped by a world that often ties worthiness to a number on a scale or an idealized image, we’ve all thought this way at some point. But here’s the truth: You don’t need to be a certain size, shape or weight to deserve to celebrate yourself. Boudoir photography is about embracing who you are right now—exactly as you are.

The idea that you have to “earn” the right to be photographed or celebrated is a myth created by media-driven ideals, not reality. Confidence doesn’t come from a specific dress size; It comes from owning your unique beauty and recognizing that your body has carried you through life’s ups and downs. A boudoir session is a chance to reframe how you see yourself—to shift the focus from “what needs fixing” to celebrating everything that makes you, you.

Your worth isn’t tied to perfection—it’s tied to your courage to show up and honour yourself. You are enough, right now, as you are. Let’s capture that resplendency together.

Excuse: “I’m not sexy enough (or) I don’t know how to be/act sexy.”

Truth: Rediscover Your Sensual Side—It’s Still There

“I never feel sexy or sensual anymore, so a boudoir shoot must not be for me.” It’s a common thought, especially when life gets busy. However, here’s the truth: Sensuality isn’t something you lose—it’s something that might just need a little rediscovery. A boudoir session is the perfect way to reconnect with that side of yourself in a safe and authentically empowering space.

Feeling sexy doesn’t have to mean looking a certain way—it’s about feeling confident, comfortable and powerful in your own skin. Boudoir photography is designed to help you tap into that energy, even if it feels long gone. Through professional guidance, flattering poses and a supportive environment, you’ll be reminded that sensuality is less about appearances and more about how you embrace yourself.

The spark is still there—it just needs a chance to shine. A boudoir shoot isn’t about becoming someone else; It’s about uncovering the radiant, sexy version of you that’s been there all along. You deserve to feel amazing, and a session can be the first step toward reclaiming that part of yourself.

A woman in a boudoir session, surrounded by softly flickering candles that create a warm, intimate atmosphere, highlighting her confidence and sensuality in a peaceful, serene setting. — Nicole Ely-Joshi Photography, Calgary, AB

Excuse: “I don’t have the money (or) I can’t spend that on me.”

Truth: Investing in Yourself Is Always Worth It

“I just don’t have the money for a boudoir shoot right now.” It’s an understandable hesitation—life is full of financial priorities. However, consider this: A boudoir session isn’t just a splurge; it’s an investment in you. It’s about boosting your confidence, celebrating your unique beauty, and creating timeless reminders of your strength and sensuality. Your well-being, self-love, and confidence are priceless—and worth every bit of care you pour into them.

We know that financial concerns are real, which is why we offer flexible payment options to make your session achievable. After a booking retainer secures your spot, you can take advantage of pre- and post-session payment plans for your photo album, wall art, or anything else with which you choose to preserve these memories.

Your dream session doesn’t have to feel out of reach! If you have questions about payment plans, we’re here to guide you through the process. Just reach out, and let’s create something extraordinary together.

Invest in yourself because you’re worth it. This isn’t just about photos—it’s about honoring the amazing person you are.

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